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Indigo and Crystal Children Support and Perspectives


What does it mean if you say enjoy your daughter's presence as yourself?

‘Enjoy her presence as you’, meaning to realize that your daughter is you within the principle of oneness and equality as life, in other words, you daughter is one and equal within you and as you. So what it means to ‘enjoy her presence as you’, would be to realize that when she’s expressing herself, ‘enjoying herself’ with whatever she does – realize that she is you, you are her enjoying yourselves together in that moment and as you participate with her in a moment, where the two of you are together. Realize that within you she exists one and equal as you and it is within participation with her, that you ‘enjoy her presence as you’, because she’s one and equal with you as you.


Bringing Children into this world

Question:

I am wondering the conundrum of pregnancy and the bring and raising of children at this time.

Is it a great idea/time? Is it a not? Is it irrelevant? Is it a cruel time to bring a child here? If one or two fully present beings have discarded all dependence, illusion, etc, will they birth the first free and fully aware baby at birth? or something else? Am I gambling the birth of a reptilian? Is the majority or even the entire human species wiped away from this dimension in 2012-2025 and therefore the whole concept is both pointless and cruel?


Perspective:

Here is a perspective of 'birthing a child into this world' to take into consideration as a suggestion:


If you are looking at bringing a child into this world

Birthing a child into this world is a 'risk', this world is indeed 'hell' in this moment, so the child would literally be birthed into the manifestation of hell.

See, 'having a child' and 'starting the family concept' has become human beings 'last resort' in attempt to restore some form of 'stability in unity' as a 'family construct' for themselves to 'have something / someone' within this world upon which they can 'project / express' that which they did not accept within themselves, that which they did not 'give to themselves', that which they denied themselves they want to 'give to the children' - they want to 'give to another'. That's why mothers / fathers 'project love unto their children' because they know not how to love themselves, they know not even what love is so what they're actually projecting unto their children / child is 'what they have accepted and allowed themselves to be and become as the nature of the mind, the 'truth of themselves', and so the children become the parents to the parents can see in manifestation what they have become / accepted and allowed within themselves, which manifested as themselves in the child, which is a fuckup because beings that are parents don't see / realise / understand this, which 'cause' seemingly inconsolable 'differences' between 'parent / child' which they 'hide from each other'. There exist no trust / honesty within the 'family unit', just deception in separation, dishonesty and secrets and so the 'system of the world is 'fed.

In this moment, if you are not living self honesty, self trust, if you do not live in awareness of breath in self expression in oneness and equality as you = no mind, it would be a shame to bring a child into this world. Because then the child has to 'take on' your entire 'nature' you have accepted and allowed within you, the child will then have to become you, experience you so you can actually see / realise / understand what you have accepted and allowed you to become, to then only maybe possibly transcend what your child is representing / projecting to you as you, the transcendence taking a few years and then IF you transcend then only the child will have the opportunity to 'experience their own individual process' after you have completed yours. The simple question: Would you do this unto yourself? Because in essence of life in oneness and equality, the child is you, and I am certain you would not wish this for you as the child.

Human beings 'think / believe' that babies that cry when birthed into this world is 'precious' / 'beautiful', they see the baby, but don't actually hear the cry. The cry is of pain, immense extreme pain as the systems integrate and infuse into the human physical body to 'lock into' the unified consciousness field, when the 'systems' integration and infusion' is complete, the baby will stop crying. No human being can remember the actual manifested experience of being born while sitting here in this moment, therefore, you will not recall the immense pain experienced.

So, if you are 'looking at brining a child into this world', I'd suggest you first 'sort you out', so that when the child is born, you realise that you're birthing you into this world, and the child as you is able to walk their individual process of birthing themselves as life from the physical and so you assist and support you in oneness and equality as the child in their individual process, instead of the child first having to become you, then you transcend you and then only later in life the child will have the opportunity to go through their individual process. Realise that each child that is born in this world will go through their individual process of practically birthing themselves as life from the physical in this world.

Thus, I would suggest to 'reconsider' birthing a child into this world before you are certain that you stand within and as oneness and equality as you and that you live so that you understand this child is you, there exist no 'fear', no need, no desire, no want, that this child is you, individual, within their own process here on earth. The child is not YOURS, the child is of life and you will UNCONDITIONALLY support and assist this child within their individual process of birthing themselves as life from the physical here on earth. And that you're not existing in the concept of / idea of 'family', but that the you and your partner and child are one and equal, within your own individual process of birthing yourselves as life from the physical and assisting and supporting each other in doing so, there are no 'concepts / ideas' existent within either you and your partner that is of this world with regards to the definition of 'family' and 'bringing a child into this world'.

Thus, if you do not yet have a child, I would suggest you prepare you first in applying you within this process, because in preparing you, you are preparing the way for the child as you.


You already have children in this world

Here I suggest parents observe their children intently and specifically, especially with regards to their 'behaviour', have a look and see where their particular behaviours such as 'reactions' / 'fears' / 'irritations' / 'frustrations' / 'shyness' etc. relates to your experience within you, as your children 'reflect you' within this world as who and what you have currently accepted and allowed the nature of you to be and become. If you have any reactions towards your children/child, observe this as well, because in such moments, they are applying that which exist within you, you have not yet 'sorted out' within you, then apply self forgiveness accordingly until there are no more reactions within you.

I also suggest you place your children/child within you as you, this is done in the following way: You see your 'child / children' before you, you'll see that you're actually able to take them and put them inside you as you. Then you apply self forgiveness as them as you within you as you, in other words, you apply your self forgiveness process, your individual self forgiveness process, but in placing them within you as you, you're applying self forgiveness on their behalf as you and releasing the child/children as you from all they have 'taken on' of you for you to see before you what to 'deal with' / 'direct' within you. So you assist and support them as you.

I would also suggest home schooling, to not 'run them through the mill' of the education system, as the influence of other children / teachers / parents conforming to the 'design of the education system' with regards to their experience within and as the 'education system' extensively influence the child from the perspective of 'shaping behaviour' / 'personality', which cause the child to later in life become unrecognizable to a certain extent, but some / most aspects of the child as part of 'who they have become' was designed within the educational system. At home you're giving the child as you the opportunity to discover their own individual self expression, this is impossible within the 'education system of going to school, thus I suggest home schooling.

Also reading is imperative, especially books without too many pictures, so that the child is able to 'build a vocabulary', in establishing a specific vocabulary the child's communication in expression of self will be extensively effective, also assisting and supporting in the process of living words as themselves, which is done through reading and establishing a very specific vocabulary.

So, here are some pointers to assist, we will be doing books / documents on these three particular points more specifically.


If one or two fully present beings have discarded all dependence, illusion, etc, will they birth the first free and fully aware baby at birth? or something else?

If two or one being(s) stand one and equal, in expression of life, assisting and supporting each other in not accepting/allowing anything less than who they are - the being as themselves birthed into this world will be 'free' from the perspective that the child will experience their own individual process of birthing self as life from the physical - instead of first having to 'take on' the parents mind nature in becoming the parents before they have the opportunity to experience / apply / live their own individual process. So, the 'parents' assist and support the child as themselves within their process.


Am I gambling the birth of a reptilian?

Lol - no, not at all - I would not be concerned with this in any way whatsoever.


Is the majority or even the entire human species wiped away from this dimension in 2012-2025 and therefore the whole concept is both pointless and cruel?

I would not concern myself with 'what might/could possibly happen' in the future, because then you're living THERE SOMEWHERE instead of effectively applying you here in every moment of breath in assisting and supporting you to live/direct you effectively in this world, you are HERE, so, LIVE HERE effectively.

The 2012 / afterwards 'wipe out' concept is but the manifestation of all of humanities fear collectively within their own mind as 'fear of death' / 'fear of not existing', I would suggest to not accept / allow fear to control / influence the experience of you here, it's just a fear, a fear of the mind = not real.


Children and Ilness

Question:

Why do children get sick? is it also because of some sort of system upgrade? or are there other reasons? and my question pertains both the very 'trivial' illnesses like the flu etc and also the more serious ones like leukimia, cancers etc etc

how can we help/assist sick children - again question pertains both aspects?


Perspective:

With regards to 'flu's', previously illnesses were 'designed' within and of the unified field as support and assistance for system integrations within and as the human physical body, along with the vaccination and medications provided within and of this world.

Though, all illnesses, diseases and sickness is assisting and supporting the 'process of self revelation', so illnesses, diseases and sickness is specific in their applications.

Though with regards to 'flu', in this moment, as well is fever, fever is assisting and supporting the diffusion of mind consciousness systems within human beings, so when you have flu and experience fever, don't fight it, rest and drinks lots of water, the fever assist much as systems can't handle heat very well, especially the internal hear fever produce within and as the human physical body.


Should I still go to school?

You're still in this world, thus, it is to be in this world but not of this world, go to school, though it's all about who you are in every moment as you participate in this world, to remain here as the breath, as the moment , within and as self honesty, to not allow or accept anything or anyone separate from you / outside of you to influence who you are within you, so you are still able to participate in this world, go to school, because you are here, but not to allow your surroundings or those within your world to influence who you are. So, be in this world, not of this world, and we have to 'exist' in this world until this is done, so for a moment, participate and do what is necessary, go to school, until this is done and you walk your process in every moment of every breath by applying self forgiveness for thoughts, feelings and emotions that rise within you.


How to Assist my Children

Question:

I've just found this site, and I am just marveling at it all, finding truth is profound! I will from this day forward work hard to apply everything that is needed for this process. However having three small children it would be nice with some advice on how to assist them and end their enslavement and not to enforce it in daily life. Assuming that we will be free from the 'chains' and can start living, and enjoying life as who and what we really are within this life time I wonder how that would be implemented...it almost seems like there would have to be a total clean wipe of everything that was in order for there to be a new beginning since nothing will ever be or can ever be as we know it today. Does that not mean that a crossing over would be necessary from this physical life for all on this planet in order for this all to come together? It is stated that the first born son in every family will remove himself, that for us would naturally mean my eldest son would cross over before the rest of us did. To me I'd rather go together, and not one by one. Death is life, true life, so to me it makes sense. Why endure suffering in any way shape or form anymore if there are ways to avoid it? There will be great personal 'battles' ahead in my personal relationship, and I realize what I need to do in order to progress properly, that realization is for me personally quite difficult since the children are the ones who I feel the need to protect. Relationships is for me something I am over and done with. Still I am within one to my partner, and would find it difficult to find a way out of that without children getting 'in the middle'

Perspective:

i have 2 children and assisted them as myself, they are my equal in all aspects, I am parent here with them, but never spend time with them from the age of 7, we are in the same home, they are totally independant

I gave them one gift, the ability to read. At seven they could read Lord of the Rings cover to cover, that is their strenght in this reality

No cross-over will be necessary for realisation, the videos will explain this as we continue, though, many will cross as they are in a state of enslavement that will bring unnecessary suffering

Those that realise the truth of self will have to consider action to prepare the way for the children, it is uncertain if we as parents will experience anything more this life but preparing the way

patience and strength

we will assit as much we are able to and have a discussion going on practical oneness and equality as a living experience of self

there is not much expertise on this subject in the universe